christmas countdown at beach cabana! woots! haha. they play gd music, n the atmosphere was well, cosy n warm hearted. with the cute lil gals (future clubbers) dancing on stage. of cuz its the company tt matters. had a fab nite out =) thankew! at least this yr christmas is well spent. cabbed hme with ben bear.
b4 tt had a full n yumyum dinner at my aunt's place with bestie n lili!!!
oh. cam whoring at wherever we r.
tt's ching me jasmine.
and, lili me ching.
me n bestie!! look at the earrings. haha. hers didnt light up everytime the pic was captured.
bubu came over to my place when i reached home. n gave me my remaining christmas prezzies. =)=) thankew. they were cute! haha. *snuggles*
HAPPY CHRISTMAS N A MERRY NEW YR TO ALLL... loves all arddd!!! =p
yeahh. my pretty manicured nails. =)
its fucking 4.45am n i cant go back to slp.
i wanna call *u so badly..
whr r *u..
i miss *u.. the old *u..
i need *u.. the old *u..
i nd to sniff *u b4 i slp..
i nd *u to patpat me to slp..
i jus wan the old US..
everything is lyk gg way off..
am scared..
love didnt feel tis scary till now..
mayb love ain't enuff to sustain a relationship.
its the understanding part.. the compromising issue.. the perseverance thingie..
i m growing up.. yeah. i nd to.. i can't stop growth, can i?
am sick and tired..
baked hell lots of peanut butter cookies =) kinda 1st time doing it all by myself w/o mumm's help.
life is BORINGGGG!!!
i <3 my bibibubu =) missing..
i wanna GO OUT GO OUTT!!!
more pictures!!
my dinner @ some korean restaurant.
dessert! 红豆雪花 and 草莓雪花 =)
look @ the size of the sausages. woah! *gags*
meee!! with a pretty winter cap. =) yupp. i boomed.
correction: whEee! yippity! i'm a
somebody! =)=)=)=)=)
miss miss.
this is the shop tt sells apple coated with caramel n nuts n marshmellows etc etc.
some of the nice nice coatings. o. the one wrapped up is the 1 i bought. niceee!
this shop is a shop tt sells xmas stuff! prettyy!
i miss bestie n jadey. sighs.
i hate being here all alone. who'll understand,
i mayb a nobody to u. but ur somebody to me. somebody so dear. yet.. 4get it.
SHOPPING is FUN FUN N FUN!!! esp when its nt from ur own pocket =)
EATING too. =X my kilos r coming back. damnit.
taipei really rawks!! today to shilin. tmrw to xi men ding n 101.
i miss sg n its pple. ching(in hk), jadey, ruru, kailin, gummy, minex, steffie, von, mich, ziyan etc etc.
hols r lyk zooming past. bleah.
o ya. i do miss bubu.
damn the registration of subj. arghh!
i will most prob have long days EVERYDAY. how gr8! long n packed!
fuck tt. bleah.
this can of beer is biggg!
the sea =) so huge, fierce, yet it has this calming effect.
up in the mountains
the world of strawberries. nice rite!! =)
i am in taiwan nowww!
at a cybercafe. with no aircon. n i m suffocating from 2nd hand smoke. hur!
it was raining the whole dae. went to some beach n historical sites todae. bloody cold @ the beach. but my bubu called. =) it somehow made me kp smiling.
bubu went to 9 and 3/4 platform! off to hogwarts! aww.
yest went taipei train station. well, jj lin was there. eewww! n there was a shop tt sells all strawberry stuff. watever strawberry-ry stuff, u name it n u will get it.
(will update the nice nice pics later.)
bestie's havin xu liu shan. i m so jealous! =p
jadey jade =) miss me! haha.
had fun with the guides n scouts todae =) love them.
cinderella was gross.
was exciting getting lost w jade, ruru n peizhen. =X
jades a dangerous driver. but still i love her =)
p.s. girls rock!!
boringgg dae.
watched happy feet. dun really tink its tt nice. hurhur. bleahs.
home almost the whole dae. watching “你来自哪颗星”. some korean dvds. its gettin interesting. though 宫 is nicer. =)
got lots of dvds to finish up. n i still hv grey's anatomy. i wan ghost whisperer!!!
i m a homely person.
ve been blogging much too frequently. kinda stupid. kp doing the same stuff everydae yet wanting to blog. wats wrong with me. ha!
jade darling, b strong kk! u can do it. =)
bestie too.. get out of the club n close it down!!!
9days left. 11days gone. =) yippie!!
p.s. i m jus happy hearing *ur voice.
p.p.s. mayb its better to b easily contented. den to hope for more n getting sadd all over again. =) so, be pessimistic n.. when things turns better, u r happier? ha, wat m i saying.
=) i m so so so so so H-A-P-P-Y!!! happy.
baby bought me flowers. =) as in.. sent. its such a sweet n pleasant surprise. love!!
what more can i ask for with such a lovely sweet honey baby. =) =) =)
u r my sunshine, my only sunshine.
u make me happy when skies r grey.
u nv know dear, how much i love u.
pls dun tk my sunshine away.
*hugs*
I DO MISS BESTIE ALRITEY! HMMPH! =p
hope jade darling is doing alright. *prays*
relationships ard me r crumbling jus lyk.. "snap" n broken.
oh God. pls stop all these nonsense. pls stop pple from succumbing to temptations. pls get rid of those sluts, bitches, jerks n bastards. pls help pple cultivate appreciation. pls let pple love unconditionally. pls make love simple. =)
o yaa. some pics of qp photoshoot. =p
i miss *u =) tts y i asked. tt simple. i love the way u love me.
me n yijian.
me n aud.
aud, peiwen, me
typical auntie. me.
wedding dinner on sat.
i got a hot mum. =p
me n my mum.
me n my cuzzie jen =)
i m a movie freak! met bestie n watched 2 movies. 9:56 n material girls. 9:56 is a korean horror. how can we miss watching a horror show wen she is the only 1 who will watch with me. scaring ourselves. its quite gross. nt tt scary though i shrieked a couple of times n ching covered her eyes. ha! =X material girls.. not badd =) cuz of the cute actor in it!!!! lunch at jack's place. yummy! went to fareast. my dress is sold out! arghh. =( gonna buy it no matter wat! had cheese sausage n mangolingo n kiwi garden =)
rushed for driving. got my fav instructor. =) n i m a horrible driver i guess. haha. he nearly puked blood. but.. cuz i was too cute. =p
watching my last korean serial dvd [sassy girl, chun-hyang]. the guy is so damn cute! =)=) the girl too!!
darling jade, dun get too upset alritey? if its meant to be, he will be urs. no matter how u wanna kick him away in future, he will still stick to u. no fault lies with u. its jus tt jerk's fucking indecisive mind ey? to hell jerks!!! dun bully her. bastard.
havent been boy watching these daes. hah. perhaps cuz i watched too many in those shows. living in the screen world now. =p
oh ya. did i mention tt my darling is getting cuter n more shuai by the day!!?? *花痴*
see! =) =)
tried to replenish my slp todae. but still insufficient. supposed to meet py n her cuzie for shopping todae. but my eyes quite swollen so i didnt turn up.
had manicure session todae. pasted fake nails =) den shopping n dinner with mom.. bought heels n bag for tmrw's wedding dinner.
see!!=)
anw gonna b a bz day tmrw. QP photoshoot in the morn til evening. rushing home den head out for wedding dinner.
me n kayla! cute rites!
this boy is cuter! <3
"How does one knows if he/she is in relationship with the right person?"
EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the beginning, you fell in love with your partner.
You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love wasn't hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love...
Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."
Think about the imagery of that expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling is love is easy.
It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a period of being together in a relationship, the euphoria of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your own, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?"
And as you and your partner reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when relationships breakdown.
People blame their partner for their unhappiness and look outside their relationship for fulfillment.
** NOTE: Extra-marital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship.
It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.
But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.
It'll NEVER just happen to you.
You can't "find" LASTING love.
You have to "make" it day in and day out.
That's why we have the expression "the labour of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your relationship works.
Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery.
There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner) to succeed with your relationship.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make it stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect.
If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...you can "make" love.
Love is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling....
this jus hits me.
cuz..
it's so true.
having lots of thoughts n feelings. but its jus hard to pen it down. so deep down inside me. i'm drowning in myself. fuck it. no one but me myself can help myself. directionless. aimless. selfless. i wish for 1 day. jus 1 day..
p.s. oh i miss u so, my precious one. the one.
